Valentine's Day is coming and many people are thinking of the ex at this time. At such times, we often review the whole relationship and remember the good and bad times - when the end came, it seemed like the best alternative, right? But what would things be like if you were still together?

This is a hypothesis that we usually consider when the ex in question played a really important role, when the relationship was not abusive, when the breakup happened without much thought. Still, there are old loves that leave us with this little drop behind the ear.

Would it be worth giving the relationship another chance? If you are asking yourself this question, you might want to check out a survey by the Huffington Post, which has compiled advice from an app that encourages people to return with their old love affairs. Here are the top five reasons why people want to resume dating:

1 - When you realize you did everything wrong

Recognizing a mistake is difficult, and sometimes only after a while can we understand that we were wrong. At the time of anger, it is normal to see only the other's faults, which eventually prevents us from making an honest and sincere self-assessment of our own behavior.

Realizing that you were wrong, that you really hurt the other person and that you gave reasons to break up is definitely one of the factors that makes someone want to resume a relationship.

Who never? = (

2 - When you believe you have lost the person in your life

When you stay away from your ex-love for a while, you may miss yourself and start thinking only about that person's qualities and how good your relationship was. If you come to see him or her as your soul mate and think that you will not meet someone in the least, your chances of wanting to resume dating are really great.

Do not go!

3 - When you don't want to be without anyone

There are people who can't stand the idea of ​​sleeping without someone next door or living without someone to call "big guy". Even worse if the couple had children - then, to one side, are two separations. In these cases, reconciliation does not necessarily happen out of love, but out of fear, anxiety, and insecurity.

Come closer!

4 - When you believe the other person can change

The relationship of the two of you was not the best and you came out of it carrying many hurts. It turns out that you have now realized that your ex-love is acting differently, expressing a desire to change, and that makes your little heart full of hope, causing you to try again - is it going to work out anyway?

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5 - When you believe you can change yourself

The person who broke up with you was not happy beside you and made a number of complaints about your behavior. If coming back is all you want, and if you know exactly what you were doing wrong in the relationship, you can try to change and propose reconciliation.

The key here is to be committed and persist in your idea of ​​becoming a better person. If you get your second chance, grab it tightly.

Love always wins.

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Do you think or ever thought of returning with some love from the past? Open your heart here in the comments!